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Donna and Chris posted a condolence
Sunday, March 16, 2014
WOW.... almost one year. John, you are missed everyday. We love you, our dear friend. Donna and Chris
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Cathy Miller posted a condolence
Monday, July 15, 2013
“Through letters and cards, families will be able to hold that friendship in their hands and to read those kind words at a time and place that supports their pace of healing.” I got this <a href="http://obituarieshelp.org/words_of_condolences_hub.html">condolence</a> message from a friend and it really helps me to go through life. I hope this can also help you. Live life to the fullest. Cathy, Obituarieshelp.org
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Chris and Greg Chapdelaine posted a condolence
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Our deepest heartfelt condolences go out to Johns entire family. We had the pleasure of meeting John and his brother David several years ago in Florida while they were here taking care of their uncle. Though we didn't know John long we knew he was a gentle soul with a heart of gold. John, we will always remember your kind gestures and big smile. Our son Michael will always be thankful for the day you sold him his first car for a $1.00; and he had that car for 2.5 years! May you be seated at the right hand of the Lord and be embraced by his everlasting love. Chris, Greg, Michael and Matthew Chapdelaine Port St. Lucie, Florida
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Patty Szanto posted a condolence
Friday, March 29, 2013
Another great "Cuz" moment. Everytime I saw him either at church or anywhere, he would hug me and ask "All's well?" And he always asked about Kevin..."How's Kevin? Where is he, at the gym?". Always, always asking about everyone else.....always concerned about and for everyone else. I love you Cuz...and yes, "all's well".
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Patty Szanto posted a condolence
Thursday, March 28, 2013
There are no words that will help, no words that will heal and no words that can offer any explanation of a heartbreaking event, an irreplaceable loss, a pain like no other in all the world. John Cuz, you are (not were) a beautiful soul, a kind, honest, decent, trustworthy, fair, non-judgemental, peaceful, smart, talented and loving man, husband, father, brother, cousin/dear friend. We promised each other another dance and I did not want to wait one more year as 30+ years since our last one was way too long. I guess I will have to wait some more but we will have our dance together again one day. I could talk to you and ask you about anything and you always had a answer. You cared at times when no one else would even think of me. You put up with my weak and floundering faith by always saying, "Faith like a child, Patty, faith like a child". Oh,how I am holding onto to that now as there is nothing else. You have made my life better and richer and more meaningful by being in it. I am so very glad we talked 2 weeks ago and ended our conversation with "I love you". How I miss you....and will always miss you. I will never forget that you never, ever judged me in light of all I told you. It is cruel in a way that just when I found you again before I knew it, I lost you again. I will always remember you, honor the man you are (I refuse to use were), respect you, look up to you and love you so, so very much. PattyCuz
"Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die".
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Jerry Boschma posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Words are inadequate to describe the loss of my dear friend, John. A wise man once said “if a person has never experienced such pain, no words are possible, if a person has, no words are needed.” I have known John since I was five years old. He, Dave, my sister Wilma and I were like family. My parents, Art and Martha were the best of friends with Andy and Trine, and we would visit each other unexpectedly on almost a weekly basis. As I grew to know John, I realized what a special person he was. His wit, wisdom and ability to tell stories and jokes were second to none. He was the best mechanic I have ever known and as teenagers we would race around in all the Ford cars he built from scratch. The most important attribute however was the fact he was a Christian and his deeds throughout his life clearly evidenced this fact. Because of this, I gain comfort knowing that his soul lives and rests in the Hands of God and one day again we will all be together. Rest in peace, my friend. Jerry Boschma
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The Gladstone Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. John will be missed. Remember the goods times, like we will,growing up on the farm together. All the fun we had with the shows and just running around wondering what we could get into today. We were so surprised to here of his illness and sudden passing.
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Cliff Meyer posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
John and I met at Ramapo H/S. He & I were in several classes together. I always admired his gentle spirit and conversation. We shared a common love for God and country. John was an even tempered cool-headed guy. I don't remember many others from High School however John stands out in the crowd. He was special. John had much wisdom and common sense for his young years. I feel blessed to have known him, regret that we lost touch over the years and am saddened to learn of his untimely death but comforted to know that we will see him again in heaven.
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John Schilstra Jr posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
It is with a heavy sad heart that I write this, but I know you would want us to be rejoicing now on where you are. You are an amazing man who showed and taught me an endless amount of knowledge from every point of life. Your wisdom was great, and you were such a great listener and talker. You helped me through so many things in life - work, faith, life, relationship, and how to treat others. If the problems and projects were big or small you always helped out or took charge of the situation. You are my best friend and dad, and I will always remember what you have done for me and taught me. I wish I could see you now in heaven and talk with you, but I know that you need me here to watch over the family, continue my work, and begin my own family. I love you so much and its never goodbye - I will see you later, someday!
Love Jr.
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Your Cousin posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
Fear no more the heat of the day.
Nor the furious winter's rage.
Thou thy worldly task has done.
Home art gone and tend thy wages...
Your Cousin
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Erin Mulford posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
In the short time that I was blessed to have known you, you have been like a father to me. When I was in need or needed anything, you were always there, so caring and so supportive. You always welcomed me into your home with such kindness, acceptance, and warmth where I felt a part of your family from the beginning. I will always cherish the "dates" we shared. And most of all I have you to thank for the son you raised, because you have made him into who he is today and I am honored and forever grateful that I can share my life with your son. You will always be in our marriage, in our hearts, and in every decision we make. We will feast with you soon in eternity. With much love
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Bob and Stephanie Clauson posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
Dearest Schilstra's, Our hearts are heavy at the loss of such a kind, caring, compassionate friend. Our lives were better because John was a part of it. We will miss his sincere smile and gentle ways and look forward to the day when we will meet again. May our God give you peace and comfort. Love, The Clauson's
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John and Kimberly Ruesch posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
We are so privileged to have known John. He was always looking out for others. He made friends with my husband and myself with ease. This bond will always be held in our hearts. We know he is in heaven now. We will keep his loved ones in our thoughts and prayers.
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Jeff Burnette posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
Dear Leah, Ana and I are so sorry for the loss of your sweet daddy. We are praying for you and your mother and brother.
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Phoenix Personnel posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
Everyone at Phoenix Personnel wanted to send our condolence for your loss. You are in our thought and prayers.
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Jan en Foke v.d.Wal - Stellingwerff, Balk, Holland posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
Dear Sue and family, please accept our most heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. We were very sad to hear about John. We remember him as a fine, amiable man. We pray the love of God enfolds you during your difficult times and he helps you heal the passage of time.
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Donna and Chris Farraye posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
John, knowing you has been a blessing beyond what I can put into words. Your smile will forever be with us. You were a friend at all times. I will miss your weekly visits to church to check on things which always ended in a nice, but funny chat. I will stop into "Jonezy" at Jones Hardware and share the sadness. Hayley and Jayson said they are so happy you are with Jesus. We love you John!
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Wayne and Dorothy Sorenson posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
We are so sorry to hear the news about John. Please know our thoughts are with your family in this time of sadness.
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Piet & Tineke Hopman posted a condolence
Monday, March 25, 2013
Dear Sue and children, As it was yesterday so we remember the time we had together last summer, the service in your church we attended. Since 1972 we came over once in a while and several times we have met Johnny and his parents. We remember his smile, his faith as we have shared that. We know that dead is not the last word, special in these days for Easter we believe that the last word is to God and in the hands of Jesus. He says: "I am the resurrection and Life, who soever believes in Me shall have life eternally. We pray that you may experience the precense of the Lord now and in the future. Most kind regards, Piet and Tineke Hopman. The Netherlands
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Leah Brown posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
My dad was my best friend. We spoke on the phone nearly every day. We would spend hours solving life's problems and concluding that the world would be a better place if everyone were as perfect as the two of us. He imparted such incredible wisdom and had so much patience. Dad, was always joking around and had so many silly "pet names" for me. Always the optimist he helped me to see the silver linings. He was a kind and generous man who never met a stranger. People loved him. I will spend the rest of my life making him proud. A day will not go by where I won't think of him and miss him terribly. And the two of us shall meet again one day where there will be no more sorrow and no more tears. I love you, dad.
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The Madara Family & Wilma Kuipers posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Dear Sue, Leah, John, David, Lois, & Stephanie, My entire life I have been convinced that the Schilstra family is my extended family. I called them my Aunt and Uncle...and their kids David and John are my "cousins." But more than "family"...John was my friend and confidant...especially during many evening phone calls. I could call on John and he would take a magnifying glass to my joys and successes, but if I called with tears he knew how to diminish them with a joke or sound advice. And John too would pick up the phone just to call us and say a friendly "HELLO!" So where does one begin? Words cannot express the heartache we feel for your family. Our prayers & thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. With much love, Dave, Wendy, Amanda Madara & Wilma Kuipers
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Jim and Bernice Buist and family posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Dear Sue, Leah, John, David and family: We are so very sorry to hear of the passing of John. We pray that you will receive the strength needed in the coming days. May God be with you all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jim and Bernice Buist(Haarsma) and family, Burlington, Ontario
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Cindy and Artie Griffenkranz posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
John will be missed by so many of us. He was a gentle, kind man who everyone loved. We will miss his smile, care and enthusiasm. We know he is with GOD now. It is our loss, heavens gain.
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Tracey & Pete Strating posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Dear family: Our sincere condolences! May our Father grant you His love, comfort and peace in the time ahead. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. In Christian love: Tracey & Pete Strating, Ontario Canada
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Jan en Alie Stellingwerff posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Dear familie, we heard that John is deceased. Our thoughts are with you during this time of grief and loss . You have our sympathies and condoleances. Jan and Alie Stellingwerff Woudsend. The Netherlands
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Ralph Coviello posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Sue and family: Words cannot describe what I feel in my heart right now. John and I have known each other since the second grade. Maybe we were not close, maybe we went for a while without speaking, but I considered John one of my closest friends. While not knowing the circumstances of his passing, I hope that he went quickly, with no discomfort, and with honor. Rest in peace, my friend. May God bless you and your family. Till we meet again.
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Claire Necessary posted a condolence
Sunday, March 24, 2013
Leah and Schilstra Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time of grief and loss. My the Lord be your comfort and strength. Your have our deepest sympathies and condolences. Claire Necessary
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Heidi Rothermel posted a condolence
Saturday, March 23, 2013
Johnny was the big brother that I always wished I had. Whenever I came out to NJ, I was always welcome to stay with him and Sue. We would drive all over. We went back to the farm in Mahwah where my Aunt Trine and Uncle Andy lived and laugh about the things he and David used to do there. So many great memories. We would talk for hours about anything and nothing sitting on the back patio into the wee hours. He remembered our family history better than anyone. I'm going to miss "my big brother."
Sue, Leah, John, David, Lois, and Stephanie, our deepest sympathies. You'll all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Love you all,
Heidi and Gary
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David P. Schilstra posted a condolence
Saturday, March 23, 2013
John: You were the older brother. You always were looking out for me no matter what. You could smack me around when we were kids but no one else could. If they did they felt your wrath. I guess that made me feel special. You were always a good listener and always gave good advice. We worked well together when Mom and Dad needed us and for that matter any of our relatives. I will miss you more than you will know. You were a great brother and a great friend. When you see Mom and Dad in Heaven tell them I'm doing fine. My work is not complete here yet. Love, David.
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