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Rebecca Masone posted a condolence
Sunday, August 13, 2017
I am so saddened to hear about Robert's struggle and passing. Robert knew me as Miss Wiechert... his 4th grade teacher. I can't quite express how I felt upon hearing the news this week while out at lunch with other teachers from Saint Joseph's. Robert's bright, infectious, 10 year old smile immediately jumped to mind. He was the kind of child you don't forget... joyful, smart, kind, and funny. Heaven has another saint. I will be praying for your family. Take comfort in knowing you'll meet again.
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Kim Hopper posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 5, 2017
Bob - I'm so very sorry for your loss, and am grateful to have met Rob. May he rest in peace.
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George Nassor posted a condolence
Friday, June 23, 2017
So sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my younger brother Mike in a very similar way 7 years ago. Nothing I can say will help you bear this pain but I have been there and am very sorry.
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Robert's Father - Robert S. Nylund posted a condolence
Thursday, June 22, 2017
This Song from Vinnie Paz (A Depersonalization Sufferer himself) BEST describes the Disorder. Please watch and follow along with the Lyrics.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eSfcUzGTdk
Darkness comes beneath the dying stars
With all the blood and scars
My mouth will hunt you
With fear - I appear
Nothing will stop me
You crave the creature in me
Shattered, I will capture you
So run
[Vinnie Paz:]
My family don't understand what I go through
Under diagnosed for 20 years, ain't never broke through
You ever been in such a fog you don't know you?
Never being able to do the shit you're supposed to?
I wouldn't wish it on anyone that I'm close to
Wouldn't wish it on anybody that I'm opposed to
There's not an accurate diagnosis to show you
Basic neurobiology isn't close to it
I'm watching life as a spectator
I can't help myself, even though I possessed data
It's not a part of my spirit to want to test nature
You think you know what I'm feeling, cousin, then let's wager
I'm having trouble retaining new information
Familiar scenes starting to look foreign- derealization
Everybody tired of being patient
Mama wondering why her baby crying in the basement
Constant rumination just exacerbates it
To the point where I can't even barely narrate it
I've had doctors tell me that my mind is fascinating
But they can't tell me why the sickness has been activated
[Yes Alexander:]
Darkness comes beneath the dying stars
With all the blood and scars
My mouth will hunt you
With fear - I appear
Nothing will stop me
You crave the creature in me
Shattered, I will capture you
So run
[Vinnie Paz:]
My head don't work, the meds don't work
But I don't want to be dead, dead don't work
Sleep's the cousin of death, the bed don't work
Maybe I'd rather be dead; dead don't hurt
Realization of an inherent emptiness
Maybe that's another sin for the pessimist
Possibly I am a jinn with a exorcist
I've fallen because I've been on the precipice
Maybe it's my mama's possible regret
Maybe it's a neurological neglect
Maybe it's the reason why water's wet
The angular gyrus and where the frontal lobe connect
But maybe I'm being too complicated for you
Maybe I should just be calm and explain it to you
The psychiatrist thinking they could fool you
Paxil, Zoloft, it's just wasteful to you
I've tried meditation, tried to sit in silence
But how the fuck that help a neurochemical imbalance?
Why would you tell a person that they were childish
Without an understanding of the pain that they surround in?
I always feel foggy somatic detatchment
It's like my body isn't connected to actions
It destroys everything that's affected the fragments
I don't have nothing but senses and sadness
[Yes Alexander:]
Darkness comes beneath the stars
With all the blood and all the scars
Nothing will stop me
You crave the creature inside
Darkness comes beneath the dying stars
With all the blood and scars
My mouth will hunt you
With fear - I appear
Nothing will stop me
You crave the creature in me
Shattered, I will capture you
So run
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Gemma posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Rob I promise to make it my mission to spread awareness about this awful disorder. You are an absolute warrior for being so strong for so many years, only those of us who have experienced it will truly understand, Your family tried to help you as much as they could and I can see how much they love you. I will think of you often and picture you smiling and feeling happy and free. Love Gemma
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Kim Hutchinson pledged to donate to NJ Sharing Network (Tribute Notification)
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
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DEBBIE OBRIEN posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 21, 2017
To the Nylund family,
We are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful son/brother, Rob. We have fond memories of him and your family when you lived "in the hood" aka Circle Blvd neighborhood. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time.
With deepest sympathy,
John, Debbie, Bill and Dan O'Brien
and Mrs. walter segro pledged to donate to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital - Tribute Program
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
We will always remember that smile and his endless energy on the basketball court.
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Lillian De Augustinis posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
To the Nylund Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I have met Rob thru Matthew my grandson and we thought highly of him. He was
such a good friend to my grandson that I am honored I knew him. Matthew is very upset and sorry for your
loss.
Sending my prayers and Condolences to you and yours!
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Cathy Palmieri Stuart posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Bob -
So very very sorry to hear of your son's struggles and passing. You must be so devastated. My prayers and condolences to you and your family.
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Lisa Mac Donald Preston lit a candle
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
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Roxanne Kavanagh posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
I was saddened to hear the tragic news that Rob Nylund had passed away via the Facebook, Depersonalisation page. I too am a DPD sufferer and have suffered for many years, so have an idea of what he had to endure. Sleep tight and rest in Peace and fly high with the angels. Lots of love and prayers to Bob and family from Roxanne Kavanagh, South Gloucestershire, United Kingdom.
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Ana Leal lit a candle
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Dear Louise, - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. May your beautiful memories sustain and bring comfort to you and your family during this difficult time. I ask for God's blessings on you and your family.
Yours in Peace,
Ana Leal
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Michelle Botts and family posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Dear Louise and Family,
So very sorry to hear; please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Warm regards,
Michelle, Jack and Lindsay Botts
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Barbara and Doris Nylund lit a candle
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Robert Axel you were a beautiful young man inside and out. May you rest in peace with all our other family of angels. You will never be forgotten and we love you dearly.
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Patricia baker posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Mike and I are so sorry for your loss . Rob was a part of our lives while he dated my sister. He was a sweet, special young man. Rest In Peace.
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Meresid Mouw posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
I pray Rob has find the peace of mind he needed so much.
My heartfelt condolences go out to his friends and family.
May we find answers for the debilitating disorder that is DPD.
And help for those still suffering every day.
Meresid
- The Netherlands -
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Mom and Dad showing me some "Love" at my Birthday Dinner at a Steak-House in Wayne.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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At The "Pin-Stripe Bowl" at Yankee Stadium - Penn State vs. Boston College.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Another of my famous "No-Look" passes.......
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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You're not getting around me!....vs. West Side H.S. in Newark
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Golf with Dad in CT. - Spring of 2016
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Yankees vs. Dodgers with Kershaw Pitching - 2016
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Mom, K-turn and me......
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Summer of 2016 - Bring your Dog Night to Somerset Patriots Game. Charlie hated it.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Who cut my bangs ??
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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No words can describe how I will miss you Robert ......
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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With Dad - AKA: Daddio in the driveway at Poppy's house. Better get back on that diet Daddio.....
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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How did I end up with this Rabbit Outfit? Oh well, Happy Easter !
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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With Aunt Debbie Nylund when we first realized you were a "natural" in front of the camera lens.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Christmas morning by the fire with Dad at the "New" townhouse in 1999.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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With Nanni (Gay DiVanno-Nylund) at Mary's
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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At Nanni's (R.I.P.) with Alisa and Nicole.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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We even tried Soccer but never really liked it. ;-)
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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With Mary Lisa and Cousins Alisa and Nicole after a swim.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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With Cousin Alisa and an old friend Amanda.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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If only I could turn back time !
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Modeling career was sadly derailed by the dreaded Depersonalization Disorder. When are CNN, 60 Minutes, Discovery Channel and others going to bring the "silent mental killer" to the forefront?
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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So Handsome, but more importantly, A Heart of Gold. He pulled for the Underdog.
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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His Poker Prowess was Remarkable..... Good hand or not, can you tell?
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Robert (Bob) Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Soaring High Above the Competition - Draining another 3-pointer. XOXO
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Robert (Bob) Nylund lit a candle
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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This Candle Signifies The Continued Life my Son, Robert Axel Nylund has Achieved. Two young men will continue to have life as a result of my Son's passing. A young man in the Philadelphia area received Robert's warm, love-filled and strong beating heart. Additionally, a young man in the N.Y.C. area received Robert's Liver, which will provide an extension to his life as well. In death, you gave life to these two young men. You are a HERO my Son. I Love You !! - Always and Forever, Daddio XOXO
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Robert (Bob) Nylund posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
To My Beloved, Beautiful and Only Child; Robert Axel Nylund
My Dear Robert,
My heart is shattered into pieces that will never be able to be put back together again in this lifetime. I am crying while I type this because I still cannot believe you are gone. The thought of never being able to hold, see, touch, laugh and comfort you again is too unbearable to comprehend. It will not be easy, but I promise you, I will try to be strong with the knowledge that not another sunrise will occur where the pain and torment you suffered daily will have to be endured. You fought long and hard for eight years like the Champion you are, but understandably became exhausted. When death becomes a more viable alternative, it should be proof to all just how painful your battle was, and then decide to finally surrender. You had a heart of gold, an exceptional mind and a bright smile that was slowly ripped away and destroyed by Depersonalization Disorder (DPD). In your name, I will continue to challenge the Psychiatric and Medical Communities both here in the U.S.A. and all over the world to find a cure for the debilitating mental disorder you suffered from for eight (8) long and torturous years. Lord knows both Mom and I did everything in our power to find you some relief and I am sickened the Medical and Psychiatric Professionals continue to state that answers, cures and relief to your disorder simply are not there. We all know they are NOT doing enough research. I tried in vain to get you into the Depersonalization Studies at Mt. Sinai in NYC. While I wish you had waited a little longer to say farewell, it would be sinful and selfish for me in asking you for more time while you suffered every minute of every day. Make no mistake, you were cheated of the long and happy life both Mom and I expected you would enjoy. You, # 33 made me so proud in your achievements on the Hoop court at West Milford H.S. during 2008 and 2009. I will miss our chess games and the helpful tips you gave me while playing Texas Hold-em. Rest in Peace now My Angel, your mental suffering has ended. As a Donor of Life, your Heart CONTINUES to Beat and has given life to a young man in the Philly area and your Liver has been transplanted and given life to another young man in N.Y.C. - So you will LIVE ON in the Northeast. I LOVE YOU more than you will ever know and I miss you terribly already! I am SO PROUD to have you as my Son. Love Always and Forever and Ever - Daddio XOXO
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Robert S. Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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In one of the Greatest Games I ever witnessed in March of 2009 - Rob Nylund, a senior guard who finished with a team-high 18 points, connected on a 3-point basket with 57 seconds remaining to give West Milford a 62-60 victory over Wayne Hills in the quarterfinals of the NJSIAA/ShopRite North Jersey, Section 1, Group 3 tournament last night in Wayne.
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Robert S. Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Battling for position vs. Paterson EastSide.
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Robert S. Nylund uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
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Rob as member of the West Milford Highlanders - Provided me and his entire family with many proud moments. His Basketball "career" at West Milford brought me joy that I never experienced in H.S. - Rest In Peace # 33 , Love Always, Daddio xoxo
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The Calianese Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 20, 2017
Our love and prayers are with Robert and his loving family. Robert's genuine kindness and caring spirit was very special and will never be forgotten.
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Mary Francica posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Dear Bob, I am finishing the school year in New Hampshire on Wednesday and cannot attend your son's wake. Otherwise, please know I would be there. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Your tribute to him was beautiful. With deepest condolences, Mary Francica
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Bob Croucher posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Rest In Peace Robert.... while here on earth you did a good job and now are rewarded by being with God.
God bless your family in this time of grieving and may a feeling of peace come over your family knowing you are in a good place.
God bless you and your family
Bob Croucher
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Lorraine Gaglioti posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Dear Louise
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. He is such a handsome man and in reading about your wonderful son will be the memories you can hold onto. We love you and will support you during this difficult year of loss in your family. I will continue to pray for you. Love Lorraine
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jim busch posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
god bless this wonderful young man, as he makes his way to be with our lord in paradise
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Donna Del Vecchio posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Dear Louise, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. My heart goes out to all of you at this difficult and very sad time. Love, Donna Del Vecchio
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RENEE CAPALBO AND FAMILY posted a condolence
Monday, June 19, 2017
Rob came to my home many times during his HS years and would sit down and talk with me, we would share stories and he always made me laugh, when at that time he knew a laugh was very much needed. His smile would light up a room and he was such a genuine, kind awesome person.
*Our family is deeply saddened by the passing of Rob. We'll always remember Rob fondly and feel lucky that we had the pleasure of knowing him.. We share comfort in knowing Rob is no longer suffering..Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. XO
With caring thoughts,
Renee Capalbo & Family
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The family of Robert Axel Nylund uploaded a photo
Monday, June 19, 2017
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