Friday, April 8, 2016
I have always kept my cousin closer than the distance between us. Ellen caused a memory from my earlier days with a simple act of teenage kindness. I was only 9 or 10 and went along for a ride with Ellen & Peggy, we were heading somewhere with purpose, but for me to be included on the ride, meant more than whatever the task was.
Sitting in the backseat and watching my cousins animated in the front seat gyrating to the music that was blaring on the radio was a moment in time that has remained with me throughout my life. Sugar Pie Honey Bunch was playing and we were driving near a monument in some unknown plaza to me, while my cousins entertained and showed a young person the beauty of laughter and music.
My life has become richer for that one experience and each time, though way too few, that I was with Ellen, my appreciation for her was taken to another level. She was a fun and engaging friend that made me laugh, but also contemplate the events that made her ill. I pray for her to be comfortable in her passing and wish Jack and the kids a lifetime of shared memories... for me, Sugar Pie Honey Bunch... you know that I love you... Rest in peace my cousin.
