Wednesday, August 24, 2011
Dear Richard and family, You may not remember me. Pat was my boss when I was public relations assistant at First National Bank of New Jersey. My name then was Lories Nye. I left there in 1984 to have my first son. When I read today's paper, I was shocked to learn of Pat's death. She was a great woman, excellent boss and I'm sure, will be missed terribly. I always remember her love for her dogs and her dedication to her work. I can still remember the delightful birthday parties she held for her dog. I extend my sympathies to all of you. I know what's it's like to lose a spouse. My first husband died suddenly in 1993 when my boys were 5 and 9. It's like losing half of yourself. I was devastated. But with God's help and the encouragement of family and friends, I went on to become a teacher, remarried seven years later and am now working on my masters. Out of all the pain, I started a grief recovery group at my church. I still have a passion to help those who hurt as I know the depth of despair I felt. I pray God gives you strength and peace. If you ever feel the need, check out griefshare.org, as it is located around the country. We give hope when things seem so hopeless. Pat was too young and as I remember her, deeply loved. My heart goes out to you all. With my sympathies, Lories Nye-Slockbower
